I am building something remarkable in this space down in New Zealand (see pic below).

It’s the work of my life.
There was a mirror here before. I pulled it down. I’ve put up a blank canvas.

This excites me more than anything else I’ve ever built.
No one in coaching, real estate, or solopreneurship has ever done any…

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I’m pretty sure he’s got an addiction.

He’ll deny it.

He’ll say that he’s just fiercely determined to find the perfect woman.

Tony’s like a Jack Russell with a juicy bone.

I stole his phone once for shits and giggles, and he kept following me around begging like a …

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Suddenly, my Facebook Messenger started popping like crazy.

“Hey Geoff, tell me about your program.”
“I want to join. What’s happening? This sounds amazing.”

I was getting ready for the fireworks that evening. Where were all these people coming from?

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When I looked deeper, I saw that Laura, one of my most incred…

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I pick a topic, ask people on social for one word about it…

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Examples:

• How do you feel about Trump? (Cover your ears)

• America is………………….?

• Give me your thoughts on love?

Then I take those words and craft them into a Zagoosie poem that I publish.

You can read them all here, Zagoosie Website…

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I had a couple of angry little trolls on the Substack app yesterday.

Nasty little men with stubby fingers, bad tempers, and something clearly missing in their lives.

(P.S. If you missed it, in yesterday’s post I shared my 5-point plan for dealing with online trolls. It's already helped hundreds — might be just the fire you need today.)

But here’s the thing: Those vile trolls aren’t my real enemies. They don’t get close enough to actually hurt me.

The people who do get close enough?

They’re not cruel.
They don’t yell or spit or send hate mail.
They’re just… average. Unenthusiastic. Quietly unsupportive.

They don’t hate you, they just don’t lift you either. And I’m starting to think those are the ones who are most dangerous to our dreams.

You’ve heard it before:

“You rise to the level of your friends.”
“Good is the enemy of great.”

I think average friendships are the true restraint on the life of anyone with a big vision. My oldest brother told me once, when I was a 16-year-old delinquent:

“Geoff, if you want to change your life… you gotta change your friends.”

That one stuck.

So I’ll say it to you now: If you want a life that burns, that exceeds your expectations, that actually reaches your goals — then who surrounds you matters more than almost anything.

Think of yourself as a fire. A bonfire. A dream that wants to blaze with passion and power. A person who wants to live a life that truly matters.

Now ask: Are there people around you kicking snow on that fire?

Are they saying things like:

“Why so intense?”
“Relax a bit.”
“Maybe take it easy for a while?”

Are they taking the heat out of your goals? If this resonates, hit share.

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There’s someone in your circle who needs to read this before they allow their own fire to be dimmed again.

👇 Keep reading if you’re ready to turn up the heat.

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Metaphorically, because I need you to keep reading this.

A lot of entrepreneurs — really anyone with a dream — will tell you about that one defining moment.

When someone told them they were “dreaming,” that they were foolish, that they wouldn’t succeed.

That they should buckle under the weight of failure and get a real job.

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One of the most sustainable ways to grow a business?

Build real relationships with the right people — the kind who send clients, opportunities, and momentum your way.

I’m starting a small case study group for impact-driven entrepreneurs who want to build 20 co-creator partnerships that lead to steady referrals and business flow.

It’s a…

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To chase your wild, beautiful dreams while dragging people who don’t believe in you? No more, please.

Your vision was given to you for a reason. It lights you up for a reason. That’s destiny knocking.

So choose your circle like your future depends on it—because it does.

Surround yourself with people who lift you, challenge you, and remind you who you are.

You can win. You will win.

Just stop carrying dead weight.

Much love,
Geoff x

It’s amazing how one person can change your life.

You changed mine.

Even though we met only 8 months ago, you are well familiar with my story.

I had hit 100kgs for the first time in my life, I was unhealthy, unfit and overweight. I knew things had to change.

For too long, I had tried to overcome the challenges of my physical health on my own. …

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